Where my life will be

Thinking about a year ago a guy I met a few times from meeting who clearly interested in me but I turned him down, just got married to a woman who he recently met and has a butterfly tattoo on her shoulder. I curious about what if I say yes to the guy and will that married woman be me? .... what factor that's will hits you and one day the idea just pop out in your brain and you say " this is it! I want to be with this person for the rest of my life " How did you know that the person you are with is "the one" ? and that you are not wasting your time.

my friend gave me good thoughts when i need

it takes so long to find a good person let alone someone you can love. that shit is precious. some people go through life and they never find someone to love. we lucky people
sometimes when u single u look around and everyones in a relationship. couples everywhere. but all those couples are at different points in their relationship. some are just starting. some have been going out for a long time. some are in love. But so many are just with the best person who is available at the time. they not with someone they really love